The key to healthy relationships

Welcome Friends,     
Just a short note of blessing this week, as we are on our course. If you'd like to hear about it or perhaps join for part of it next weekend, please reach out.

If you are curious about what the course is about - this is from the orientation of the ReSurfacing® Workbook

ReSurfacing refers to the action of disentangling yourself from old creations and rising back into awareness. It is a process, paralleling nature, of revealing yourself to yourself. The rewards are new insights and realizations about how your life works — or why it doesn’t work.

ReSurfacing is an expedition into consciousness that you personalize according to your own needs. How far you go is a matter for you to determine. There will be no effort to indoctrinate you with any belief or truth. What you believe is what you believe, and the truth you discover is your truth.

As you proceed, you will become aware of your own creative power. It will surprise and amaze you. Should you choose to follow this power to its source, you will find a measureless sea of awareness extending beyond time, consciousness, and creation. Ancient companions wait for you (t)here.

And now some resources from Harry Palmer, author of the Avatar Materials

Why being together matters

Long distance relationships that depend solely upon exchanges of communication rarely progress beyond the identity-costume stage. Proximity is missing. The result is a relationship that is more like a story than an experience.

Healthy relationships require sharing space and time.

This includes working together, playing together, or just hanging out. Sometimes it is just physical proximity. Two or more people discover that they are able to pursue enjoyable self-interests without interfering with each other. Minimal demands for attention, affection, or recognition are placed on each other. Over time, this sharing becomes a home space. Each individual reaches a comfort level where they can drop pretenses and interrelate (or not) without feeling that they have to.

Hanging out together relaxes territorial instincts. An atmosphere of mutual trust and respect is created. Instead of comparing the other to some model of perfection, each individual begins to see and accept the other for what they are, recognizing both strengths and weaknesses.

After a while, a collective consciousness, independent of either (or any) member begins to form. This is a natural process. It can be accelerated by outside agencies, or processes like Thoughtstorm®*, but it can also be ruined by inexperienced attempts to accelerate it. Whenever possible, let nature take its course.

*a book that details a method of creating group consciousness.  
 

from from Hanging Out Together, Private Lessons

Increase trust and respect Keep your relationships healthy with this simple and powerful exercise. Increase your level of understanding and compassion for others in just a few minutes.Try the exercise yourselfWatch and be guidedDownload the exercise

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With Blessings,   
Derek

Derek Stottlemyer - Your Avatar Guide

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